DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON??????????????????????????????????????????????????????
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse.
You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies.
In fact, it was a completely natural and
spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything.
Think about the imagery of that expression.
It implies that you were just standing there;
It's a passive and spontaneous experience.
But after a few years of marriage,
It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all),
touch is not always welcome (when it happens),
but if you think about your marriage! ,
you will notice a dramatic difference between
the initial stage when you were in love and
And as you and your spouse reflect
on the euphoria of the love you once had,
you may begin to desire that experience with someone else.
This is when marriages breakdown.
People blame their spouse for their unhappiness
and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.
Infidelity is the most obvious.
lie outside your marriage. It lies within it.
But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.
IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON;
It'll NEVER just happen to you.
You can't "find" LASTING love.
You have to "make" it day in and day out.
And most importantly, it takes WISDOM .
There are specific things you can do
(such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships.
Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger,
certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger.
It's a direct cause and effect.
If you know and apply the laws,
"No one falls in love by choice, it is by CHANCE.
No one stays in love by chance, it is by WORK.
And no one falls out of love by chance, it is by choice"
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