If you love something..........

If you find yourself in love with someone
who does not love you, be gentle with yourself.
There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose
to rest in the other person's heart.

If you find someone else in love with you and
you don't love him/her, feel honored that love came and
called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return, do
not take advantage, do not cause pain.

How you deal with love is how you deal with you,
and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even
if our lives and ways are different.

If you fall in love with another, and he/she falls in
love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try
to reclaim it or to assess blame, let it go.

There is a reason and there is a meaning. 

You will know in time .

Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you.
Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit.
Give it to the world around you in anyway you can.

There are sooo many places where many lovers go wrong.

Having been so long without love, they understand
love only as a need. 

They see their hearts as empty places
that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something
that flows to them rather than from them.

The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing,
but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as need.

They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone
who seeks love.

They forget that the secret of love is
that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.

Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has
its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for
coming and going. 

You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason
it into saying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it
away when it comes to you. 

But if it chooses to leave from your
heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do
and there is nothing you should do.

Love has always been and will always be a mystery.

Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life.

Love has been THE MOST important aspect of my life. I can say that it has not exactly been a
jolly good ride all along.., I've had my share of ups and downs... but all the while I just let it go..
because I knew.., that true love always gets back... NO MATTER WHAT!!!!

So.., if you love something..., set it free..., If its back.., its UR's..., if
it doesn't ...., it NEVER WAS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Cricket and IPL.., sorry NR-IPL

Cricket tho runs in my blood... I've grown up watching Chinnaanna play all his matches be it for Hyderabad or even the gulli matches.., the leagues and the Ranji's... People remember me shouting Azhar's name at a promotional event at Koti Womens when I was hardly 3... The moment of glory when Kapil gave his autograph.......I remember all the Indo-Pak matches and all the gum which I almost swallowed throughout those matches..., I remember praying for the Indian team before the matches ..., I remember being in love with Ajay Jadeja..., and the day I almost fainted when I saw him for the first time... :)., I remember crying sooo many times when Sachin got out cheaply...I remember the fantastic Quarterfinal World Cup match at Bangalore when Ajay smashed Waquar Younis pride..., The matches at Sharjah where Sachin proved that He is the God of Cricket... Dada's shirt-take-off at the Lords... The T-20 world cup...and sooo many more wonderful matches.., Team India.., is what runs in my blood now..., I've faced sooo much flak from soo many people for being such a religious follower of Cricket.., But i don't care..., I've always loved it.., and will do so NO MATTER WHAT... come a match-fixing scandal, or a World Cup 2007.. my loyalty towards the Indian team will never change... And now coming to the point.., I would miss the IPL :( and how!!!! Yeah I would watch each and every match on the television but it wouldn't be the same na??? The crowds, the fun, the excitement..., the rooting, the hoo haa hoo haa's and the boooooos!!!! The executive lunches and Rudra, Gilly and Gibbs!!!!! Man this NR-IPL would surely be different... Now Capetown would be Cheering the Chargers, Pretoria would be Praying for Punjab Kings XI and Durban would be Drumming for The Delhi Daredevils.... How I wish I would be a part of all the fun unlimited..., but none-the-less..., I root for the Deccan Chargers...., GO CHARGERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!